Dear readers, we all enjoying erotic massages, strip club or meeting an escort at some level, when you meet a sex worker, should you respect her/him ? Today , I’m glad to invite Hana from Eros Massage to talk about her opinion on this topic. I like to hear your thoughts on this one.
It has been a while that I sat down and wrote a serious post. First of all I have been off work and next to that you need time to think about what to write and gather your thoughts.
The adult industry is probably as old as mankind. Where there is a need…and there always was and will be…for many reasons.
There are so many forms and variations to be found in this industry. As my regular clients know I stay far away from most of them. But some conservative minds will argue that hey tantric or erotic massage is prostitution as well.
Well not really. A Tantric masseuse is in my view not a prostitute as she does not engage in any form of active sex. We work with sexual energy and yes if you prefer so we will bring you to a point where you can let go. But that is not engaging my body in active sex so it does not make me a prostitute.
What sometimes gets forgotten is that behind every sex worker there hides a human. A person. A person with a view on things and with a life. A person with feelings and a heart. And most of all a soul.
It doesn’t matter if that sex worker is a masseuse or an all round hard core escort who does sm and the like…
In life everyone is in the end responsible for his or her choices. That applies to me and to my clients and to all of us. But what often happens, because of differences in standing, class, money, education, origin and so on, that people loose respect for one another. Why would an escort deserve less respect for her personality than anybody else?
Don’t we all have a soul and don’t we all let our light shine a little bit on this world?
So the discussion point that I like to bring up is this: Should a masseuse or an escort or a pole dancer deserve less respect than people of high class and standing? Just because we give pleasure and relaxation does that make us lesser human beings? Or a toy to be played with?
I personally think we are all equal and we all do good things and we all make mistakes. We all have a soul in spite of the choices that we make in life. It is easy to be judgmental. It is much harder not to and respect others for what they are without exercising judgement.
So dear clients and whoever reads this: any time you see a masseuse or an escort think about her soul and her person as well when she lets you enjoy her gorgeous body. It makes the work so much nicer for the provider and you know what it will make the service for you so much nicer too.
Don’t misunderstand me: I am not saying my clients don’t show me respect. Guys, regulars, you have been great. Thank you !!!
Of course not everybody I met down the road was so nice but hey believe me they are not regulars in my business.
I like to hear your thoughts on this one.
See you soon and have a lovely evening !!
About Hana: Hana is an independent sensual massage therapist at Eros Massage currently living in London.